the 4 boyfriends in your life

Once upon a time there was this girl who had four boyfriends.

She loved the 4th boyfriend the most and adored him with rich robes and treated him to the finest of delicacies. She gave him nothing but the best.

She also loved the 3rd boyfriend very much and was always showing him off to neighboring kingdoms. However, she feared that one day he would leave her for another.

She also loved her 2nd boyfriend. He was her confidant and was always kind, considerate and patient with her. Whenever this girl faced a problem, she could confide in him, and he would help her get through the difficult times.

The girls 1st boyfriend was a very loyal partner and had made great contributions in maintaining her wealth and kingdom. However, she did not love the first boyfriend. Although he loved her deeply, she hardly took notice of him!

One day, the girl fell ill and she knew her time was short. She thought of her luxurious life and wondered, I now have four boyfriends with me, but when I die, I'll be all alone."

Thus, she asked the 4th boyfriend, "I loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?

"No way!", replied the 4th boyfriend, and he walked away without another word.

His answer cut like a sharp knife right into her heart.

The sad girl then asked the 3rd boyfriend, "I loved you all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?"

"No!", replied the 3rd boyfriend. "Life is too good! When you die, I'm going to marry someone else!"

Her heart sank and turned cold.

She then asked the 2nd boyfriend, "I have always turned to you for help and you've always been there for me.

When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?"

"I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!", replied the 2nd boyfriend. "At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave."

His answer struck her like a bolt of lightning, and the girl was devastated.

Then a voice called out: "I'll go with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go."

The girl looked up, and there was her first boyfriend. He was very skinny as he suffered from malnutrition and neglect.

Greatly grieved, the girl said, "I should have taken much better care of you when I had the chance!"

In truth, you have 4 boyfriends in your lives:

Your 4th boyfriend is your body. No matter how much time and effort you lavish in making it look good, it will leave you when you die.

Your 3rd boyfriend is your possessions, status and wealth.When you die, it will all go to others.

Your 2nd boyfriend is your family and friends. No matter how much they have been there for you, the furthest they can stay by you is up to the grave.

And your 1st boyfriend is your Soul. Often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power and pleasures of the world.

However, your Soul is the only thing that will follow you where ever you go.Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of you that will follow you to the throne of God and continue with you throughout Eternity.

Thought for the day:Remember, when the world pushes you to your knees, you're in the perfect position to pray.

What HurtS the Most

I can take the rain on the roof of this empty house
That don’t bother me
I can take a few tears now and then and just let 'em out
I’m not afraid to cry every once in a while
Even though going on with you gone still upsets me
There are days every now and again I pretend I’m ok
But that’s not what gets me
What hurts the most
Was being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
And never knowing
What could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was tryin’ to do

It’s hard to deal with the pain of losing you everywhere I go
But I’m doin’ It
It’s hard to force that smile when I see our old friends and I’m alone
Still Harder
Getting up, getting dressed, livin’ with this regret
But I know if I could do it over
I would trade give away all the words that I saved in my heart
That I left unspoken

What hurts the most
Is being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
And never knowing
What could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was trying to do

What hurts the most was being
so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
And never knowing
What could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was trying to do

I'm saying that loving you
That’s what I was tryin' to do

RASCAL FLATTS- WHAT HURTS THE MOST

p.s: i couldnt find any embedded code for the youtube video..can only paste the link there..so click to watch the mv

ps2: at 1st i thought it was some song from a girl..but i really love the lyric...

Heart Damage by Navi

Heart Damage (lit: my heart is hurt)

something seemed strange as you looked at me without a word, so i blocked my ears
because the lip shapes that i saw with my eyes seemed to say let's break up

without knowing, tears wet my feet again
i was so embarassed, i hung my head
oh~ saying "please don't be like this. don't leave me"
today, for the first time, i cried in front of you

yeah that's right
you'll probably have to prepare that goodbye kiss
we're over. e-n-d, baby like this
can you move over? excuse me, miss
let's break up now. no mo' business
no mo' whips, and no mo' ices
i want to go back, back to my peeps, back to the streets
cuz, girl with two faces, just can't do it, girl
yes, just go. you're dismissed
peace~

because my heart is damaged, i can't even breathe
because it spread to my heart, it hurts so much i want to die.. it keeps hurting
even after going the hospital, i couldn't find the reason i was hurting
because my heart is damaged

all of a sudden, i looked in the mirror
looking at my reflection in the mirror,
saying that i'll cry just for one day, that i'll empty you out,
i drank alone for the last time

i told you, you can't get a playa back like that
though i can rap to any beat
i don't love with any girl
here, you're a nobody
i'm a tree stump that blooms flowers
but you ain't my flower
last bit of pride, pshh~ just swallow
don't follow, don't call me tomorrow
we're strangers, over
yo, taxi. i'mma holla

because my heart is damaged, i can't even breathe
because it spread to my heart, it hurts so much i want to die.. it keeps hurting
even after going the hospital, i couldn't find the reason i was hurting

if my body is damaged, it would heal
because my heart is damaged, my tearful illness won't go away
up to the point where when i eat, i can't tell whether it's food or tears
my heart is damaged

i hoped that your lip shapes aren't the words of farewell
oh~ saying "please don't be like this. don't leave me"
today, for the first time, i cried in front of you


credits to crazykyootie@soompi



*this is the original version and there is another version feat Jaebeom (2PM)

** since Navi's part is still the same..i will just add in Jay's rap..




Jay's rap
(korean rap)
I don't think of you anymore
Inside my mind, I'm the bad guy
Who told you to love me
We have to break
Love is a crack in a glass window
Even if it hurts like you might die don't cry to me
I have no heart (5, 6, 7, 8)
If our love is a book then this is the last page
The times when I miss you are 0 minutes 0 seconds
There's no chance for our love, 0 percent

(english rap)
Yo Listen baby girl
You're not getting it friend
Why do you keep coming back to me
again and again
Just let it end shawty
you ain't thinkin well
If this the game of love then
we in different cells
ain't lookin at you
my eyes have shifted
you got a broken heart
i ain't the guy to fix it
Unhappy story of me and you
it's the end
look at the time
i gotta go
it's 2PM...peace!



p/s: personally, i like jay's rap more...maybe im bias :P

Will It Be Ok??

Lee Hyori feat BigTone
I'm starting to get familiar with each day without you
Even though I told you nothing would be wrong
My heart keeps worrying and I keep longing for you
That's what the truth is, baby, baby, baby, baby

**Won't it be like that for you for awhile
It was hard for me alone in my thoughts
Were we weary from such a long love
Tell me, tell me where you're at

Rap)
Yo, lift your head and wipe your black tears, baby don't cry
I hurt as much as you are sad, look at my eyes (look)
(What) Have you forgotten me already
All your useless misunderstandings, trust me, it's all in the past

Don't think about the past baggage
You and I both felt our hearts tremble at the same time
So girl forget that, even if we can't go to the beginning, let's become a little deeper
Smile for me, so that I can forget all my pain
Before it's too late come back, back into my arm
I know I make mistakes
It's not a fantastic love, but I want to hold onto it

Occasionally you upset me, but I accept that honey, you're my sunshine
Because you're the only one that can fill this dark spot
So shorty say you'll stay, a world without you is incomplete
Know what I mean? I go insane

My heart remains here, still the same
Have you already started to leave far away
Was my promise of eternity foolish to you
Tell me, tell me where you're at

(Baby) I still want to love you
You're still the only one for me
Baby, why do you keep getting farther away from me
You will be in my heart

** (Repeat)

Will things get better after tonight passes
Will the times without you become more familiar
Will I be able to forget you like people say I will
Tell me, tell me where you're at

credits: soompi

p/s: they said time heals but i dont think so..it only makes it less hard but still hurts..afterall there will be a scar though the wound heals..agree???

Wedding Dress by Taeyang

p/s: perfect as no need to find the translation else where...credits to to the person who upload and

Translator - pgeorgie
Typset - Kay
Encode/Upload - Patra

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